Disclaimer #1: I wasn't going to post these because I have a feeling they will ruffle feathers I'd rather not ruffle.
Disclaimer #2: I am non-confrontational by nature, and I don't generally ruffle the feathers of kind folks as a matter of course.
Disclaimer #3: I cry easily. I'm just sayin'. Don't send me unkind emails for kicks. I don't take them well.
I'm not even adding any pretty pictures to soften this puppy up. It's just a heck of a lotta words. There's your forewarning. This isn't my usual blog fare. ;)
My notes ended up being a compilation of both Mr. Pudewa's thoughts and my own response to those ideas. I was going to try and sort out his ideas versus my responses, but it became messy and difficult to read. Some of it's his, some of it's mine. I'm not separating the two, so keep that in mind.
| Okay, so one pretty picture. I couldn't help myself! :) |
Ready, then?
Public Schools: How They Started & Why They Work Just Fine
Pudewa started the evening with a very enlightening synopsis of how American Public Education came to be. This was eye-opening to say the least (The Underground History of American Education by John Taylor Gatto is now officially on my to-read list).
The basic summary is this: public schools were started with a very clear agenda to, in the words of those at the helm of the movement, "control human behavior." Indeed, government-run schools were instituted to teach children to think a certain way (not to learn how to think, which was the goal that Classical education worked toward for thousands of years).
In fact, Pudewa made the audacious statement that the public school system is not at all broken. The schools are, in fact, doing exactly what they set out to do: provide a conveyor-belt style education that turns out people who will think a certain way, support the country's economy, and become avid consumers. When the public school system was founded (not so long ago, in fact), it aimed to teach poor people enough so that they could enter the work force. Not an ignoble goal, considering the circumstances of that time and era. But certainly outdated. And yet the standard has never changed.
Our public schools still operate on the conveyor-belt, grades-based education system that was put into place to support the Industrial Revolution. No wonder we aren't graduating students who can think independently, read well, and articulate/communicate thoughts effectively! The role that big coal companies and German psychologists played in how our schools came to be and how they continue to be run is certainly worth knowing, and it is chronicled in Gatto's Underground History.
Now, before you think that Pudewa was on a tirade against the public school system and all those who run it, let me assure you that he emphasized this important point: the vast majority of American schoolteachers are hard-working and altruistic. They love children enormously-- that is why they go into teaching. The problem with our educational system is not the teachers. It is the basic system.
But you can't fix a system that isn't broken. And it's not. The system is doing what it was put in place to do. The whole idea of taking mass quantities of children and passing them through a standardized set of lessons so that they will come out thinking a certain way is how our public education system was founded. Pudewa says, the next time you hear a politician saying we need "educational reform" because the public education system is "broken", you might consider this: a system that's doing what it was put into place to do is not in fact broken. It's actually rather effective.
If, on the other hand, it rubs you the wrong way to think that we graduate masses of students who cannot think independently (or think well at all), then you might consider that we are expecting the public schools to do something they weren't created to do.
I will take a moment here to note that I do believe children learn all kinds of things in a public school. They just aren't the things we want them to learn. But John Taylor Gatto can explain that better than I can, and you can read it rather quickly in his excellent and succinct Dumbing Us Down: The Hidden Curriculum of Compulsory Schooling.
The Aims of Childhood
There are three basic questions that cannot be asked or addressed in a public school. They are:
1. Who am I?
2. Why am I here?
3. What am I supposed to do with my life?
Asking these questions and seeking their answers is the crux of childhood formation. These are the questions we, as creatures made in the image of God, are created to ask. But the public schools cannot even begin to address these, because every one of them infers an absolute truth. Public schools are, Pudewa says, "temples of relativism."
You can choose what you want to believe.
You have your own truth.
Your truth is not better than my truth, and my truth is not better than hers.
There is not really any "truth" at all.
There is no such thing as bad music, or good music.
There is just music, and everyone has their own valid response to it.
There is no such thing as good literature.
There is just literature, and as long as you're reading something, you are reading literature.
I worked for several years in a large public library system, and I can assure you that the high school reading lists I saw while working there horrified me. Classics? Who needs classics? Chronicles of teenage angst, graphic novels, steampunk zombie stories, and stories of confused and exploratory same-sex relationships-- these have taken the place of Harper Lee and Shakespeare. If you don't believe me, go to your school district and ask to see their 11th and 12th grade reading lists. When the selections aren't outlandishly modernistic and immoral, they're absolutely stupid. The expectations set for our high school graduates is so abysmal it's embarrassing.
The Damage
A typical child spends upwards of 14,000 hours in a public school classroom. Now tell me, if my child is spending 14,000 of their most formative hours in a place where relativism is the basic model, how on earth can I expect her to hold on to her faith?
Pudewa says: you can go to church on Sundays, you can take your kids to Awanas on Wednesday nights, you can have lively and meaningful dinnertime conversations, but you cannot undo 14,000 hours of relativism that has been the basis for your children's formation in public school. No wonder, then, that the vast majority of Christian families see their kids walk away from their faith within the first year of college. Sure, their parents tried to give them a strong foundation - a good many even did a darn good job of it! But 14,000 hours of indoctrination in direct opposition to the faith is almost impossible to surmount. Indeed, for many families, it is impossible.
Even when our children's teachers are well-meaning folks with high moral standards, they are still operating within the framework of a system of ideas that are in direct opposition to the values of the family as part of the mandatory, ordinary curriculum. Even the best teachers have to follow protocol, and some of that protocol is getting wildly out of hand (gay history in the kindergarten curriculum, anyone?).
To think we can combat this at the dinner table is perhaps a little optimistic. The social and moral temperature in our schools today is truly frightening, and even if you have a good school run by faithful, moral teachers- it still operates on the guide rails of a public government system that aims to teach your children to think a certain way. And probably not in the way you want them to. That's worth considering.
Aside from the moral failures in our school is the astonishing fact that our students are not even being well educated in the basic subjects. Many schools, Pudewa says, don't require students to memorize math facts. History dates? Meh. The modernistic view in education is: you don't need to know it if you can find it out. Teach them how to FIND information, and then what they KNOW is not really that important. But this flies in the face of what thousands of years of educated people have believed; it's a modern idea that atrophies the brain.
Are you really educated if you know how to google something, but can't even tell me the year in which our country was founded? Is it really acceptable to us that our students spend their best waking hours in a classroom, but less than 35% of high schoolers read proficiently? Have we become so culturally illiterate that this doesn't alarm us?
True Education
Pudewa states, "It would be better to be illiterate and love God with all your heart than to be an atheist with a PhD. The last thing this world needs is another atheist with a PhD. The world doesn't need more clever people! It doesn't need more innovative technology! It needs people who are good, true, and beautiful."
True excellent teaching is, he says, is "the overflow of the soul's goodness, truth, and beauty." And such overflow cannot take place in a system where truth itself is not even acknowledged.
So what do we want for our children? Free men and women study the liberal arts so that they can remain free. We want, in essence, freedomship education. An education that teaches one how to think. Thinking can be done poorly or done well, but we can teach children how to do it well, and then they can think for themselves. That is what we desire for our children- so that they can hear the misconstrued arguments of people (who don't think well or rationally) and figure out why such logic is flawed. So that they can discern for themselves the wrongness or rightness of a given situation, argument, or piece of work using a logical and reasonable mind.
In order to become a passionate pursuer of knowledge, one has to go deep into the subjects. This is the kind of education we ought to offer our children- the opportunity to cover less bases, but to cover the ones they do well and deeply. To come out on the other side of their childhood learning experience with deep-seated knowledge about a few important things, instead of knowing very little about everything. So we provide for our children the opportunity to dig in to their learning- to go deep, to plunge in.
We teach them, when they are young, to master the basic skills so that they can use those skills to really learn in their later years. In this way, regardless of what bases we didn't really "cover", our children can confidently go forth into their adult lives with the ability to learn anything they want. Because we have produced children who know how to think, who are passionate pursuers of knowledge, and who have a basic idea of who they are, why they are here, and what they are to do with their life, we have given them a good, true, and beautiful education.
We do this in part by teaching them to ask questions- this is indeed teaching a child how to think. Consider: there is no time for classrooms of children to ask their own questions. Instead, a teacher tells the children what to think. The children go home and study it. They come back the next day, and the teacher asks questions (so you see that the teacher has done the thinking for the student). If the student gives the teacher the answers she wants, he gets an A. (This is how I graduated with nearly a 4.0 in both high school and college. I was very good at parroting back what teachers wanted to hear. I wasn't so good, unfortunately, at thinking for myself.) If the student gives the teacher the wrong answer, he fails. And so this kind of non-thinking guides the way our students are supposedly "learning" in schools. This is precisely why John Taylor Gatto argues that most of what we call education is not actually education at all, but mere "schooling."
An Excellent High School Education
Pudewa made an outrageous statement about high school: You can probably require your homeschooled child to do nothing for four years, he says, and they will still come out with a better education than the typical public high school graduate.
How can he state such things?
I recently read that the average homeschooled 8th grader performs about four grade levels ahead of her public school counterpart. So there you go! Even if she does nothing, she's probably still going to be on par with the public schoolers who have spent four solid years at the local high school.
But Pudewa wasn't advocating an unschooling approach to high school (a cursory look through the Institute for Excellence in Writing's high school offerings should prove this). What he was saying, I think, is that there are better uses for our high schoolers' time than what they otherwise get in a public school.
If they have become good strong thinkers with a strong foundation in basic skills, then our students are ready to tackle much meatier subject matter than the typical high school offers. They will be able to get an academically superior education in less time than they will in a classroom each day. This allows them to pursue their interests and abilities in ways that public schoolers could only dream of.
To become really good at something, you have to spend time on it! Homeschooling through high school allows this to become a reality, and Pudewa shared several stories of homeschoolers who have truly become great within their fields even before reaching adulthood. Indeed, great leaders throughout history became great leaders in part because they had time to do what was important them. We can support our own students with this gift of a truly excellent education paired with unscheduled time, and allow them to far surpass our expectations.
The perpetuation of adolescence is a relatively new invention- it's only in recent years that we consider an 18-year-old not really "grown up" yet. How many 25-year-olds do you know who are still exploring their options? Growing into themselves? Thinking about what they want to be when they grow up? You've heard the saying right? "30 Is The New 20!" And yet this idea would have been outlandish even 75 years ago.
We give our teenagers adult privileges without any adult responsibilities, and then we wonder why our 27-year-olds are just finally graduating with bachelors' degrees, can't hold down jobs, and still aren't ready to commit to a relationship of any kind. By keeping our kids in high school and having them spend their precious adolescent years taking classes where many of them learn quite little, we rob them of the opportunity to get a really great academic education, prepare for adulthood, learn valuable life skills, and pursue their interests to find out who they really are what they are meant to do with their lives.
All said, homeschooling is a great gift we can offer our children- not just as a way to do school better, but as a way to do better things than school. I thoroughly enjoyed Andrew Pudewa's seminar and I hope to see him speak again soon. I encourage you to check out his webpage to find out if he's coming to your area!
I totally get why this was a hard post to write. I'd be afraid to write it too, anticipating the possible angry and annoyed response by some. But, an interesting read. Thanks for putting yourself out there.
ReplyDeleteTHIS is an EXCELLENT post!! As a homeschooling mom in my 14th year, everything you've said rings perfectly true! My son graduated in May and at 18, has already opened his own business (a music studio). He had much time in his high school years, to pursue his God-given gifts, and has known for years what his calling in life was. If he had gone to ps, his days would have been filled with indoctrination as well as, useless subjects that have been altered to fit the agenda of the liberals.
ReplyDeleteYes, you will probably take some heat from this article, but we are called to speak truth, and it's not always an easy job.
Thanks for the great info.!
And, by the way, my son's entire writing experience came from IEW, which has always been my favorite!
Blessings to you!
Debbie
Thanks for doing this Sarah. Sounds like a great seminar. Although I am not a Christian anymore, I do agree with everything that was said. It is nice to have support from those who have gone before. It is also inspiring to move forward from here after reading your words.
ReplyDeleteThat was a fabulous read, Sarah! I just sent it on to my (raised-atheist-Catholic-convert-PhD) husband. Thanks.
ReplyDeleteSarah, thank you so much for being so brave and sharing this today! This was just what my husband and I have been discussing lately-- I've already passed it along to him :)
ReplyDeleteMy son is in the 8th grade this year and we are debating whether or not to put him in public school. Thank you so much for sharing. The timing is perfect!!
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing this :-) I must admit, I don't know anyone could be offended by it - but that's probably because it's all old news to me, I've been reading these things and hearing them for 12 years now, so I'm thinking - sure, doesnt everyone know that? But of course I forget the knowledge needs to be refreshed all the time for people coming to it new, and what is old for me may be shocking for many. I think complacency like mine can be a real problem sometimes, an I'm grateful for people like you who bring this information to general awareness. I hope you dont get any mean emails! :-)
ReplyDeleteI don't know what to say except - I agree! This pretty much sums up how I feel about education. We sent two through the system and knew our "little people" would not be following in their big sister's foot steps as far as education is concerned.
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing! Great post.
I'm inspired just reading your notes so I'm sure the seminar was awesome! I wish I could go to one...I'll have to check and see if there's any in my area.
ReplyDeleteMy husband teaches sophomore English and our experiences completely confirm everything that was in this post. It's a good summary of the thoughts we've had in the past couple of years. Thanks for blogging, even if these truths are hard to swallow! -Sara
ReplyDeleteOK, I'll be the one to play Devil's advocate =)
ReplyDelete1. Who am I?
2. Why am I here?
3. What am I supposed to do with my life?
First off, just going off my personal experience, the absolute truth of these questions
for me has changed drastically in every season of my life. My answer to #3 alone has changed
a great deal just since I've had children. Shouldn't that be the case for everyone as we grow and mature?
I think it's short-sighted and overly simplistic to think that there is only one absolute truth
to the question "Who am I?" For example, presently I am a mother to 4 small children. If I continue
to let that be my defining characteristic for the next 10 years, I will be in for some serious mental disruption
when the youngest finally leaves home.
Regarding the teaching of critical thinking and logical argument - how does that work if both parties feel
they have done due dilligence with regard to research (on a given topic, let's say) and yet both arrive at
different conclusions? Do you (general you) only regard the other party to have really thought critically about
the issue if they arrive at the same conclusion you do? Is there an absolute truth to every question out there?
I'm not speaking of things with verifiable fact (2+2=4), but rather more like "In what order should one learn world history?"
or "In what order should one read the Narnia series?".
Statistically, most homeschooling parents probably graduated from a typical public school. If what Gatto, et al assert about
public schooling is all true, how can it be possible for all of these people to still have their natural curiosity,
drive to learn, and critical thinking skills intact? Are we anomalies? Did we somehow escape unscathed
from the public school machine?
Just some food for thought =)
Also, I would really like to see a legitimate news source for this: "(gay history in the kindergarten curriculum, anyone?)"
It's really pinging my inflammatory hyperbole meter.
Sorry, forgot to sign my post - Jester is Jess Pf. =)
ReplyDelete"In the past, history taught about what people did, what they accomplished," says Brad Dacus, head of the Pacific Justice Institute. "It didn't focus on their sexuality and what they did in the bedroom. Yet that is what this legislation will impose on every public school in the state of California dealing with heterosexuality, homosexual role models, transgender role models, all the way down to the kindergarten level."
ReplyDeleteRead more: http://www.foxnews.com/politics/2011/07/14/calif-gov-signs-landmark-law-to-teach-gay-history/#ixzz1dovs3ejg
Hi Jess! Good to hear from you! :)
ReplyDeleteOkay, first- some links. I probably should have linked in the post to begin with. Everyone has their own idea of what makes a "legitimate news source", so I'll link a few- the previous poster already linked to Fox.
Here's the news article to NPR and here's one to the New York Times.
Now, on to your points--
I agree that the answer to #3 changes as we mature and move through life, but I think that the original question should be asked in childhood- especially in adolescence. Of all the ages and stages, an adolescent NEEDS to know that there is a higher purpose for her life. She may not know what that entails *exactly*, but surely she should be considering and refining her gifts and abilities?
I disagree that it is overly simplistic to view absolute truth as a response to the question "Who am I?". I myself would not answer that question with "I am a mother to small children," because that tells what I do and who I serve, not who I am .
I am a child of God. I am created to bring His light and love to all those I meet. I exist to love and serve Him in everything I do. That is an absolute truth, and I think that students' ability to consider who they are is impossible to do well in a situation where they cannot acknowledge themselves first and foremost in this light.
Of course my duties and responsibilities will shift and change throughout life, but the basic nature of who I am doesn't change. It's absolute.
About your thoughts on critical thinking and logic- the basis of teaching one how to think in fact depends on looking at an argument, a piece of work, a work of art-- and seeing it from both sides. All books are biased one way or another. Wars, for example, are often chronicled by whoever won them. When a student reads anything (a history book, an expository essay, a piece of news on the internet), if she has been taught to think in a logical way, only then she can unpack an argument or point of view and use her critical reasoning to decide if that argument really follows its main points. She can decipher if the supporting arguments really follow from the main thrust of the author's point of view. She can figure out what the author's point of view is and then reason based on that knowledge
Uneducated people can't do this. Someone who has not been taught to think hears something on the news or reads something in a book and has no way to tell if the facts line up or the argument is even well made.
As for your last comment about homeschoolers surviving their own public school education rather intact... Pudewa himself mentioned that most of us homeschool not because of our public school education but despite it. And I agree wholeheartedly. I learned more in the first few years outside of the public school system than I did in all the years I was in it. Perhaps the schools didn't kill my natural curiosity and drive to learn, but they certainly didn't help me in my quest to become a well-educated person.
Pudewa noted that most people recognize that they are not as well educated as they ought to be. Most of us feel jipped! And so in our adulthood, we try to fix a bit of our ignorance by educating ourselves as best we can.
Who I am vs What I Do - fair point. Although, I'm still not sure I could have fully grasped the difference before having the life experience to teach me. In fact, I still struggle.
ReplyDeleteI wonder if, in the end, it all comes down to timing. Much like toilet training or reading - you can bang your head against the wall trying to teach either before the child is ready to learn or you can wait for *their* optimal time and have a fairly easy go of it. Would most of our essential life lessons be best left to the particular person's optimal learning window? What if, for most people, their most effective learning window for complex topics lies outside the typical k-12 schedule. It isn't that school has failed them necessarily, just that it was timed poorly. I know a good number of people who are so much more interested in particular topics well after school because finally they can see how it is relevant to them and consequently they are eager to learn. Isn't that why the rhetoric stage comes last in the trivium?
I feel personally, that I didn't really master learning how to learn until I went to college. Do I credit my professors or the emotional maturity I had developed by the time I graduated?
Thank you so much for posting this. From one of the people who asked you to I appreciate it very much, since it doesn't look like he will be coming near me anytime soon, lol!
ReplyDeleteYour notes ring very true for me. I was so afraid of homeschooling high schoolers. I swore I never would. Now I am so thankful that I am. My high schoolers are so gifted, mature, and smart! I am amazed at how much they know compared to myself when I was their age.
I come from a long line of teachers and I could not agree more with the statement that it isn't the teacher's fault. It is the system. I came very close to becoming a teacher myself, but after student teaching I knew I could never work in the public school system. It made me sick the things I saw going on, especially in ESL classrooms.
Shortly after I started homeschooling my children.
For anyone worried about homeschooling in high school, I can honestly say for me, homeschooling high school is easier than the younger grades! Don't be afraid!!
LOl! Wow! Where did you learn to take such thorough notes?!
ReplyDeleteI really liked the article and I thank you for sharing it Sarah. I do need some clarification though. Is Pudewa advocating for only a certain kind of methodology within homeschooling like Classical homeschooling? He seems to be quoting a lot of Gatto (I'm familiar with some of Gatto's works) who promotes unschooling but then Pudewa seems negative towards unschooling when he says:
"Many schools don't require students to memorize math facts. History dates? Meh. The modernistic view in education is: you don't need to know it if you can find it out. Teach them how to FIND information, and then what they KNOW is not really that important. But this flies in the face of what thousands of years of educated people have believed; it's a modern idea that atrophies the brain."
I haven't heard of too many public schools that advocate teaching students to "find information". Most public schools "teach to the test" and pound facts into the children that they need to know to pass standardized tests. So in the school system, children are being taught important dates, proper grammar, math facts etc but the way they teach these facts and the way they view the students as "buckets to be filled rather than fires to be lighted" actually hinders learning.
Like Pudewa pointed out from your comments, I too feel jipped by the education I received. But I don't regret not knowing important history dates or all the names of the state capitals. Those aren't the things I need to know to fulfill my vocation and be who I am. I feel duped into believing useless facts mattered and I feel jipped when I was made to learn those useless facts that I've long forgotten when I could've been learning about things that matter to me today. Things like Faith, how to properly cut a chicken, play a musical instrument, garden, sew, knit, PHOTOGRAPHY! ;-)
Again, I said all of the above for clarification. I'm hoping he's open to different methodologies within homeschool families because my family doesn't neatly follow any ONE method. I've tried the Classical method and it blew up in my face...didn't work for my family. We pick and choose what works best for us. We have a negotiated curriculum which means she's learning certain subjects we feel are important, like Math, faith, piano, life skills eventually logic and American History. But after those short lessons are finished she's free to pursue her own projects. When cornered, I tell people that were Catholic project-based life learners with Charlotte Mason sensibilities. ;-)
Anyways, THANK YOU so much for sharing your notes. I'm going to see if he's in my area soon.
Oh, LOVE the picture. You're so blessed with such great autumn leaves for composition and your tree climber is a beauty.
Elizabeth,
ReplyDeleteRight, so my handwritten notes were only about three pages. I rather elaborated on them when I got going here. :)
What you quoted in your comment isn't really a direct quote from Pudewa. He mentioned that the modern view of education is that students don't really need to know something if they have the tools to find the information themselves. (So many kids are not being drilled in math facts because they can just use their calculators, for example). But that paragraph you put in quotation marks is a combination of what he said and what I think. I just don't want to accidentally put words in Mr. Pudewa's mouth. ;)
Pudewa did not advocate for a Classical education exclusively. The educational method that he advocated for most vocally was Thomas Jefferson Education. He did, however, seem very open to different methodologies, and he advocated finding a way of learning and living that suits your child best. He seemed very passionate about the fact that as homeschoolers we ought to utilize our freedom to its utmost- not pigeonhole ourselves to a certain educational philosophy.
Hope that helps! :)
Great post! Thanks for taking the time to post your notes.
ReplyDeleteHave you seen Waiting for Superman-- a documentary on the American public school system. It was, for sure, an eye-opener for me, even if I didn't agree with everything that was said. Worth seeing.
Take 2. My first attempt got sucked into cyberspace. I also want to thank you for posting this. I hadn't really gotten around to thinking much about secondary education because all of mine are 8 and under. But this is definitely something new for my brain to mull over. From my own experience of school and from seeing my younger sisters (1 of whom is still in jr high) more recently going through the PS system, so much of this rings true. I was always good at school; I valued pleasing my teachers and getting the "right" answers that led to graduating with honors at all levels of my education. My husband, on the other hand, didn't give two hoots about school and was a much more independent thinker, which didn't translate to very high marks in the school game.
ReplyDeleteI wanted to add something else to the discussion over the "Who I am" question. I agree that first and foremost, a child needs to learn that they are a Child of God and come to an understanding of what this truly means (a lifelong task, to be sure, but one that needs to begin in childhood.) But additionally, I think the "Who I am" question entails an understanding of where I fit in time and place. It requires an understanding of what and who came before me, a knowledge of our collective history, of the men and women who comprised that history, of their philosophies, culture, literature, etc. It is this kind of deeper discussion and exploration of the things of history that are being increasingly watered down or revised in the typical school curriculum. (And when they are discussed, there is no looking at these Big Ideas through the lens of faith.) Depth of study is often sacrificed for breadth, and many things abandoned in the interest of PC. I just thought I would add these thoughts to your comments above.
Thank you again for being brave enough to go out on this limb. I, for one, have had much food for thought after reading this post.
Dani
First, I have to admit, while my dear Sarah is looking to not ruffle feathers, I am the polar oposite. And probably more so with all these pregnancy hormones... Don't know why I become such a hostile person! With that said, I fully plan to curb my inner "fight it" and simply stick to the basics...
ReplyDeleteIt took a lot of courage to post this, and I am proud of you for doing it. Although I feel like Pudewa generalizes by saying that "all" children this and "all" public schools that, I can't disagree much with the end point. The school system may not be broken, but it is flawed. I may have a different (what's the word I'm looking for...) view than some because I transfered schools so often. Even in the system, as flawed as it is, there is still no consistency in one school system to to the next. I do think, however, that the role of the parent has been ignored in the whole thing. Perhaps I was encouraged by someone, at sometime, to challenge and question. Maybe it is just in my nature? Sure, I have felt jipped by my education, or lack there-of, but at the end of the day I have to reflect that I played as much a role in that as my parents or teachers. Even coming from a family with a shakey religious standpoint, I have always had faith in a Higher Power, and I understand that lead me to have better morals, but I would go from an F student to an A student from semester to semester. I could do no homework at all and still ace my exams. I ended up in "honors" classes throughout High School, but chose to be the "dumb blonde" because that was who I wanted to be. And I wasn't exactly a social outcast. I have had a hard time with the school system debates, because I think that (public) school is not the time or place to teach children morals and discipline, that should be taught by the parents. But parents today (and let me clarify I think this is parents of public school children) view school as free daycare. How can these kids have a fighting chance if their parents don't care about their education anyway? I think the parents that do care, but may not be able to homeschool, are doing their fair-share to encourage the same things Pudewa says homeschooling parents teach. It's a hard sell to me at the end of the day. My own father did not graduate from High School, never even got a GED, and yet he has owned his own business for over 15 years.
I myself am still on the fence about the whole "gay history" stuff. While I am a supporter of the lifestyle, the independant thinker I am questions whether the media is simply trying to hype-up what our kids will learn in school simply to keep the issue in the limelight. Although, I am known to question most things I see or hear in the news... LOL!
Keep up the good work Sarah! Through your own learnings, your children will no question be forward thinkers of their time!!! And best wishes to all the homeschooling parents out there! Your work goes far beyond what the "average" parent does!
Way to stick your neck out, Sarah. I know it's not easy to write a post that can invite criticism or misunderstanding. That said, I found your recap incredibly thorough and inspiring, on a day when I need the reminder of why I'm doing this. If I have your courage, I'll link to on my own blog some day really soon. :-)
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for your courage in sharing these notes. I really needed these reminders.
ReplyDeleteI also appreciate the encouraging comments from other moms who have homeschooled, or are in the midst of homeschooling, their high school aged kids. I feel more calm already!
Thank you so much for sharing your notes here. I first learned about John Taylor Gatto when I was when I was studying to become a public school teacher. I hadn't even began teaching yet, and I was already disillusioned with the system! I think a lot of teachers are.
ReplyDeleteI am trying to make homeschooling so good for my daughter right now, that she will not even want to go to public high school. ;) But we've already told her that it is her choice when she gets to that age.
Thank you so much for posting this, I was so happy to see it this morning. So much food for thuggt here, and so articulately expressed :-) One thought of mine to ponder: adolescence is a social construct. It was created about one hundred years ago by the school of psychology. Biologically, adolescence doesn't exist: we have childhood, puberty, and adulthood. For me, this has always fit in nicely with the concept, development, and requirement of public high school -- which came in to play a few decades prior. Anyway. Just another piece of the history and the sociology of public education and societal norms. I've homeschooled from the beginning, and all the way through -- my eldest is 22, my youngest 9 -- and love it just as much now as when my first was tiny. My younger ones will definitely be homeschooled all the way through as well.
ReplyDeleteI loved public school. I loved my teachers. I loved band class. I loved the track and swim teams, and the boys in them. I loved taking field trips on the bus, taking the bus to compete with another school and just simply taking the bus--until the day I turned 16.
ReplyDeleteI did not love the smell of the bus, nor did I love every single day of school, every teacher, every instrument in band, nor every boy in sports. That is life.
I remember fondly my 3rd grade teacher, Mrs. Billings, and the tiny wooden stage cornered in her classroom simply lit with one spotlight. Show-and-Tell was a pivotal part of my year. Shy on the playground and afraid to raise my hand in class, I became someone new on that stage. I was funny, spontaneous, unique and energetic. I shined. In the back, behind her desk, smiling huge with crinkly eyes sat Mrs. Billings, in awe. She once whispered to me that she couldn't wait to see what I brought next.
And then, in 6th grade, there was Mr. Germaine, a former football star with high expectations. Oh, but he had a soft spot! Very occasionally he told a "Corny Story,"about his childhood friend named Corny and their boyhood adventures. Every story had a moral and left me in stitches, anxiously awaiting the next saga.
I suppose I could go on about how much each teacher influenced my life. I learned from every one of them--even the "bad" ones. I learned from their successes, their mistakes, as well as from mine and my peers.' One time I fell asleep in AP English and had a "falling dream," whence I flailed my arms and legs suddenly, knocked my papers on the floor and kicked the guy next to me. I learned from that, too.
Public school is so much more than a conveyor belt. There are just so many other variables in education and social interaction. Public school is a path, not always well-paved or perfect, but a path.
Homeschooling is also a path, albeit windy, cozy, intimate and special. But not necessarily better.
Yes, you can control carefully the subjects taught and the take on them. Yes, you can dive deep in a select number of subjects. You can teach like crazy some days, slack off on others and bake pies on a Tuesday morning. That is a homeschooler's choice. Yes, an education will happen. At home or at a school. But most importantly, in life.
Our job as parents is to teach our children the things we covet, lessons from our successes and failures--and hope they stick. Really, though, the kids will have to live to know and choose their paths.
And so, I see homeschooling as something of a parallel to public school, two paths in life's journey. There are beauty and brambles within both.